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About the author: Allison Leigh is a pornographer, producer, polyamorist, and professional kinkster. When sexuality is business, business is fun! 

The data is in – basically, everyone enjoys porn.

We do it in private, behind closed bathroom and bedroom doors, or maybe with a trusted partner; the use of pornography is as widespread as the stigma against it. From romance novels to raunchy pics and videos, the data adds up – basically, it seems that everyone enjoys erotic entertainment in some form or another. So how many of us are watching, who are we, and what are we searching for? 

Analytics suggest that consuming porn, particularly videos viewed over the internet, is a ubiquitous habit. The numbers are staggeringly large, but not surprising – according to statistics released by the internet’s largest porn provider, their site alone averaged 81 million visitors per day in 2017 (28.5 billion visitors for the year), with 24.7 billion searches performed. That translates to roughly 800 searches per second, a statistic which their report helpfully relates to the number of hamburgers per second sold by fast food giant McDonald’s. In total, 595,482 hours of video were uploaded to their site, which is 68 years of porn if watched continuously. That’s only one website, for one year – it’s safe to extrapolate that usage is far higher when considering other sources and forms of erotica that are more difficult to find data on.

When sorted by visits to the same website, the United States tops the ranks of porn use, followed by the United Kingdom, India, Japan, and Canada. Visits soared in some places – particularly Ethiopia, which rose 68 places in the ranking in the course of the year. Unsurprisingly, people seem to watch porn mostly at night, with the highest traffic consistently between 11pm and 1am. 

Possibly more surprising is the shrinking gender gap reported in a 10 year meta analysis which found that men had only slightly higher usage numbers than women. According to a report by ATTN, in 2014, 79 percent of 18 to 30-year-old American men watched internet porn at least once per month, barely exceeding 76 percent of 18 to 30-year-old American women. That number is on the rise, too – every top 20 country except Russia saw an increase in female visits versus 2016, and searches for “porn for women” increased over 1400 percent. 

Erotic expression is clearly something many of us enjoy, then; but what we choose to partake in encompasses a wide variety. “Lesbian” has long been – and continues to be – the most sought after genre, followed by “hentai” (anime porn), “milf,” “stepmom,” “stepsister,” and “mom.” The search terms that trended were even more interesting – terms like “Rick and Morty” and “Fidget Spinners” suggest novelty is the key to excitement for jaded consumers. Here at MetArt we hope our commitment to producing classy erotica with naturally beautiful girls will keep us high on your ‘favorites’ list!

The numbers don’t lie; almost everyone is enjoying some form of pornography. We’re sexual creatures by nature, and erotica is a natural extension and expression of that sexuality. Studies have shown that the enjoyment of erotica increases both arousability and romantic harmony. 

Despite current anti-porn sentiment in certain political circles, conscious and responsible porn use is a healthy habit that is past due to be accepted as part of our everyday sex lives. 

This post first appeared on MyErotica.com

 

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Crandall, Diana. "Here's Who Is Actually Watching Porn." ATTN: December 11, 2015. https://www.attn.com/stories/4626/internet-porn-demographics

Petersen, J. L., and Shibley, J.S. "A meta-analytic review of research on gender differences in sexuality, 1993–2007." PsycNET. Accessed February 23, 2018. http://psycnet.apa.org/record/2009-24669-006

Leigh, Allison. "The Key to Desire." MetArt Blog. Accessed February 23, 2018. https://www.metart.com/blog/20180216/The_key_to_desire__how_to_unlock_this_life_enhancing_drive/

Silver, Curtis. "Pornhub 2017 Year In Review Insights Report Reveals Statistical Proof We Love Porn." Forbes. January 09, 2018. https://www.forbes.com/sites/curtissilver/2018/01/09/pornhub-2017-year-in-review-insights-report-reveals-statistical-proof-we-love-porn/#1897f61424f5

"2017 Year in Review." Pornhub Insights. January 19, 2018. https://www.pornhub.com/insights/2017-year-in-review

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New MetArt model of the month: September 2018

There’s been a delicious baker’s dozen of tasty new models at MetArt this month – that’s including sexy-cute Tiffany Tatum, who debuts tomorrow, and American hottie Crystal Wings, who made her first appearance in a movie. All 13 of these lovely new nudes brought their own special appeal, so whether you like blondes or brunettes, curvy or sporty girls, it’s not an easy task to pick favorites – but that’s what makes it so much fun! Here’s my personal – and entirely subjective – pick of the top three new MetArt models of the month:

Delphina photographed by Matiss. Presented September 5

Sultry Russian brunette Delphina grabbed the attention with her beautiful eyes, full lips and sensational figure. The stunning 24-year-old with perfect-handful breasts and a pretty butterfly-winged pussy describes herself as smart, funny and sexy, and her provocative poses certainly got pulses racing.

Danica Jewels photographed by Dave Lee. Presented September 24

A gorgeous Russian cutie with that sunshiny California beach babe look, blue-eyed blonde Danica has a smile that could melt stone. The 29-year-old yoga bunny turns heads with her incredible body, head-to-toe irresistible with big, wonderfully-shaped natural breasts and an ass to die for.

Eva Tali photographed by Nudero. Presented September 25

Blonde bombshell Eva makes it a hat trick of Russian beauties that caught my eye this month. The athletic, statuesque starlet knows just how to pose to show off those fantastic long legs – I’m sure I’m not the only one who misread her name as “tall”! Busty 20-year-old Eva is a creative soul who dreams of being a writer; but we’re delighted she’s made nude modeling her first choice of career, those big natural breasts deserve to be seen!

Who was your favorite new MetArt model of September 2018?

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Get to know gorgeous erotic model Li Moon

Ukrainian beauty Li Moon has been a favorite here at MetArt since her debut in summer 2015. The petite Asian cutie made an immediate impact with her exotic look, all big brown eyes and adorable smile. Although her face is so sweet as to be almost doll like, she has an air of naughtiness that suggests perfect girlfriend material – and her slender figure, with big natural breasts and a curvy ass, is simply sensational. Read on to learn more about this sexy sweetheart…

Li Moon, please tell us a little about yourself.

Li Moon: I am 23 years old. I like to sing and dance, and to live an active lifestyle. I don’t spend a lot of time on the internet, I try to pay more attention to real communication and real life. I love to read books on psychology and self-improvement. I’m also developing my skills in make-up and photography. I am a music lover. I listen to music that suits my mood. I have a parrot, it was a gift!

What inspired you to get into nude modeling?

LM: I always wanted to be a model. I was offered a nude test shoot and decided to give it a try. I like to visit new places and countries, it’s very exciting and that’s what inspires me.

What is your favorite thing about your appearance?

LM: I like the look in my eyes, it's like a mirror of my soul. And my smile can cheer up people around me.

How do you keep in such good shape? 

LM: Partly it's my genetics. I also try not to overeat, do sports and get regular massages.

How would you describe your personality?

LM: I am a cheerful, gentle girl on the outside; and inside me there is a fire burning. I am changeable, it all depends on the circumstances and the people who surround me. I always try to be cheerful, I like to lift peoples’ mood. And most importantly I try to be real, I do not like artificiality and falseness in others.

Are you a romantic person? 

LM: Yes, I like poetry and romantic surprises, like balloon messages.

Are you an exhibitionist? 

LM: I am not shy about being seen naked. And I really like to go naked in my apartment.

What kind of man do you like?

LM: What I most appreciate in a man is if he is caring, generous and reliable.

What turns you on?

LM: Kissing and touching.

Did you ever try anything really naughty?

LM: I am open to trying new things!

What are your ambitions?

LM: I always achieve my goals, I believe that nothing is impossible. Now I have plans to start a business, as well as to find a decent man to share my life.

Is there anything else you would like to tell your fans?

LM: I'm glad I chose this path. I have my own audience and fans, I am very grateful. I travel a lot, now I cannot live without it. Staying in one place is not for me. I like to take photographs the most; I am constantly evolving. And it makes me stronger.

Follow me at https://twitter.com/xlimonade1  and https://www.instagram.com/xlimonade/

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Interview with MetArt director John Chalk

Director John Chalk made his MetArt debut last month with two delightful movies to introduce his unique visual artistry: gorgeous Antonia Sainz showed off her beautiful bouncing breasts in “Reflections,” and freckled cutie Linda Sweet proved she’s a natural redhead in “Egg-cited.” Chalk’s movies have already made a splash on our sister sites The Life Erotic and MetArt X, his eye for a gorgeous model equalled by his skill in creating interesting and original stories. You definitely want to check out his work there!

He may be new to MetArt, but Chalk is an industry veteran best known for his ground-breaking work for Viv Thomas back when independent video production was just beginning to take off. I’ve known him for several years, and I adore the way his laidback demeanor contrasts with the sexual intensity he brings to his movies. You’ll be seeing much more from him here at the MetArt Network, and I think you’re going to enjoy it! Meanwhile, here’s a chance to learn more about him…

John, where are you from?

JC: I’m originally from the East End of London, but early in my TV career I moved to West London. Most of the big facilities and film houses were based there. All my family are Arsenal fans and I’m the only one who supports Chelsea Football Club. Makes for some interesting family dinners with my sister.

What is your background in photography and film?

JC: I’m old enough to remember at film school being taught to splice film together, in fact magnetic tape was only used to record sound and we spliced that together as well. Very long and very tedious work. As soon as I could, I jumped at the chance of using the new 3/4 tape edit machines. To me it was like flying the Millennium Falcon in Star Wars, all flashing lights and levers, very cool. I made a short film for a competition run by IBM to imagine the year 2000. Of course in my film we had moving walkways, flying cars, robots, where technology allowed us a life of freedom and leisure – how wrong was I?! I won that competition and was approached by Trillion TV to crew as work experience for their music videos and concerts shown on a small, totally unknown, little outfit called SKY. The rest is history – I loved it and there was no shortage of work. I worked as an editor in Soho, daytime programming for Yorkshire TV. Working on location and also studios, gaining as much experience as possible. Now that we are in the digital age I think it’s even more exciting, to be able to be the director, cameraman, editor, sound design and visual effects person all on your own computer. It allows you the freedom to create straight from your mind, nothing is impossible if you have the time and the imagination. Definitely not tedious work any more.

Please tell us about your history with Viv Thomas. How long have you been creating erotic photographs and movies, and what inspired you to start?

JC: How I started in the erotic business probably more by accident than any effort on my side. I was asked to help out with some lighting and post-production work, so I went along and basically walked right into a porn shoot. I really didn’t know where to put my face. Anyway, after the initial shock, I started getting to know the people and realized everybody was really cool. That’s when I started to watch and over time I thought, you know I can improve that a little, I’m sure I could make that more sexy. I realized if you can make the process of filmmaking sink into the background, then the performers are free to express themselves. Sometimes it can be just one shot, lit perfectly, that raises the whole level of the film. That’s why I think Playboy snapped me up to produce peepshows for them, shot the old glamour way. I think Viv and I were destined to meet then, his pictures and my style of filming matched perfectly, and the more we talked and hung out the more we realized we could produce wonderful erotic films together. It also helped that we liked the same models; he was more into their feet though! We had some great years building the Viv Thomas brand into a huge enterprise, but unfortunately the company grew too big for me. I missed shooting and creating my own things. At the end of the day I suppose I get bored if I’m not trying something new or using a new bit of kit to create a new effect. I got the chance for that when I worked on the Lovers Guide 3D with a cinema release in Piccadilly, London. The last few years I’ve been shooting again for smaller studios, and I’ve been uncredited for some years now for all the work I’ve produced for them. That’s why I’m so happy to work for the MetArt Network now.

Are you influenced by mainstream art, film and photography?

JC: I did go to art school for a year, but film was calling, I think I could create more on the screen than on a piece of paper. I’m a chronic TV and film watcher. It doesn’t matter what it is, any genre, though I find the stories in Sci-Fi a lot more interesting, it can go in so many different directions with more freedom than other genres where the plots are more constrained. Just like erotic and fetish desires are free. Again this is why I love erotic filming, not being tied down when filming, telling a story from someone else’s perspective. It’s really rewarding when you watch something you’ve created some weeks later and feel yes that works, it’s sexy. Of course when it doesn’t work it’s a real bummer! Life’s ups and downs I suppose.

Now you have started shooting for MetArt, what’s changed?

JC: I’ve been trying to find my fit for some years now, the industry as a whole I think has been producing factory line porn. All roughly the same robotic filler. Same sets and story, just with a different color on the wall. Just a different marketing spin. I’m not really happy to be a cog in a bland machine. That’s why I’m soooo happy to be filming for the MetArt Network, their philosophy is completely different. They allow me to film in my own style and let the models express themselves. After many years it’s a pleasure to be part of the industry again. I like to tell a story through images, sometimes dialogue is not even needed to get the message across, and kinky scenarios are perfect for that. They are not only enjoyable for the viewer, but also the girl. Since I’ve been filming for MetArt I’ve not had one model who was bored. They love the scenarios and I find that they tell others they had a good time, and now I get calls daily from models wanting to film. Best job in the world.



Do you prefer studio or location shoots?

JC: Double edged sword for me. Location shoots take less setting up time and can be much more natural. It’s easier for a model to relax and slip into her role, in a real bathroom, for example, rather than a fake one. But a studio allows me to control everything perfectly from lighting to sound and create my perfect image. A studio can have special cutouts for lights creating wonderful effects, but a location also can give you inspiration while filming to create an awesome shot. I think it really depends on the story you’re telling, in fact I would say that also goes for the camera and equipment you use, best one for the job.

Is there a model who inspires you the most?

JC: I think all models inspire me, when I was 18 I did not have the confidence in my body that they do, they know their bodies and sexual desires so well and are comfortable to show this, far more completely than I did. I think I just like women. But seriously, I always start out with a casting pic. To me the model is everything, then I choose the story that fits her, and everything stems from there. So from story to look of the film, she is always the inspiration.

Do you plan your shoots in great detail, or see how it evolves on the day?

JC: I plan my shoots to every little detail, I think I’m obsessive like that and it was how I was trained all those years ago. But I learned very quickly that if you can’t adapt on the day, evolve the story if necessary, than you can quickly turn everything into a disaster. I try everything to make sure the model is comfortable, her performance is key, and the planning does help with this, prepping everyone beforehand. Normally we have a model who is really into the idea for the film, picking someone who is excited about the shoot is half the battle.

What are your ambitions for your work with MetArt?

JC: More story based scenarios, rather than the abstract; there are a lot of talented directors already on the Network doing that so well. I’ve started getting really into erotic fiction at the moment, and I’m excited about adapting some short stories to the screen. What you read and interpret in your mind and what you watch on the screen can have a completely different reaction. Even though they are the same thing, one will be sexy, the other not. Adapting the written word and making it just as sexy on the screen is a nice challenge.

What do you hope the viewers get from your movies?

JC: Basically I hope they are entertained and enjoy the films as much as me, it’s always difficult to know if the viewers will respond to something I’ve worked on, you just hope they like it as much as you do.

Is there anything else you would like to tell us?

JC: It’s just the beginning here of course. I hope that we can create some really erotic moments as time goes by, because basically that’s why we are all here.

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The MetArt 50+ Club: Eufrat A

Green-eyed beauty Eufrat A is one of the all-time greats, and an unforgettable member of the prestigious MetArt 50+ Club, girls so popular they have been featured at least fifty times during their modeling career. The tall, athletic Czech brunette made an indelible impression with her stunning face and incredible figure.

EUFRAT A: sultry beauty (79 appearances)

Eufrat made her MetArt debut at the age of 20 on December 3, 2005 in a photoset titled “Presenting Jana” by Jan Vels. She soon adopted the name Eufrat, by which she became so well known. She appeared a total of 79 times, in 68 photosets and 11 movies. Four of her photosets and one movie were girl-girl, with Altea B, Zuzana A, Demi A and Carina A (aka Suzie Carina). She worked with seven different artists: Luca Helios 37, Slastyonoff 19, Tim Fox 12, Erro 6, Nicolas Grie 3, Nick Pany 1, and Jan Vels 1. Her final appearance was in a photoset titled “Erida” by Luca Helios on March 15, 2013. Always highly regarded – 36 of her appearances were flagged Top Ten – she has several that are rated an impressive 9.4.

Having been retired for several years, Eufrat has naturally dropped down the rankings to #156 at the time of writing, with a rating of 8.7 based on 8,991 votes, with 324,357 views, and she is followed by 5,528 members. However these modest numbers hardly tell the tale of such a top class model. Eufrat’s gorgeous face screams sex appeal, with an alluring pout and sizzling gaze, and her body is head to toe perfect, with amazing natural breasts, long legs (she’s 5’9”) and a sensational ass. Sometimes shaved, sometimes unshaved and always sexy, it’s no surprise she was so much in demand.

Eufrat appeared on several other sites in the MetArt Network, including Erotic Beauty, ALS Scan and Errotica Archives. She starred in three girl-girl movies and one photoset on SexArt, but it was on lesbian site Viv Thomas that she made her greatest impact, with nine movies and nine accompanying photosets. If you’ve never seen that superb figure in motion, her movies are a very arousing treat; and there’s also a cute interview.  

In her bio, Eufrat revealed that she was a black belt in judo and was studying psychology; is it too much to hope that she has followed in the steps of fellow model Cindy Hope and become a sex therapist? Whatever she is doing now, we wish her the best and thank her for the delightful memories!

Thanks to our resident statistician and historian, Frank, for his assistance.

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New MetArt model of the month: August 2018

We’re always on the lookout for gorgeous new models here at MetArt, and in August 2018 we were delighted to introduce eight new natural beauties, all of them eager to make their nude debut for your viewing pleasure. Each one has her own unique appeal, which makes it so difficult to choose favorites, but lots of fun to contemplate! Here’s my personal – and entirely subjective – pick of the top three new MetArt models of the month:

Aleksandrina photographed by Matiss. Presented August 1

Slender brunette Aleksandrina has the most vivacious aura, so it’s not surprising she describes herself as cheerful and energetic in her bio. The 26-year-old Russian starlet has a stunning face with memerizing brown eyes, and her tall, elegant body is decorated with sexy tan lines that draw the eye to her perky nipples and perfect ass very effectively. She’s a budding actress, so we hope to see her on the big screen soon!

Avita photographed by Egon Schneider. Presented August 11

Pretty, green-eyed Avita has the flexibility of a dancer, and the cute playfulness of a born exhibitionist. The 24-year-old Ukrainian sweetheart has adorable dimples and long, straight brunette hair that reaches almost all the way to her fine ass. A nature lover, she enjoys swimming and relaxing outdoors; the idea of stumbling upon this stunning siren emerging naked from a lake is one to treasure.

Dakota Pink photographed by Matiss. Presented August 26.

Dakota’s fantastic breasts might be the first of her many alluring attributes to catch your eye, but she has plenty more to offer too. The 19-year-old green-eyed Russian model has a sensational figure, no doubt due to her sporty nature, and reveals in her bio that she is justifiably proud of her sexy body. The high-achieving science student has brains as well as beauty; no wonder you’ve been clamouring to see more of her.

Who was your favorite new MetArt model of August 2018?

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The MetArt 50+ Club: Nika N

Sexy blue-eyed blonde Nika N is the latest beauty to become a member of our prestigious MetArt 50+ Club, girls so gorgeous they have been featured at least fifty times during their modeling career. Slender and supple, the glamorous Ukrainian babe with the seductive smile is always a delightful sight. 

NIKA N: blue-eyed bombshell (50 appearances)

The athletic hottie made her debut at the age of 21, on January 29, 2013, in a girl-girl photoset titled “Reverb” with Emily Bloom, photographed by Erik Latika. Since then she has appeared in another 49 photosets, all of them solo. She has worked with just two artists: Arkisi 41 times, and Erik Latika 9 times. Her highest rated appearance is in “Ettori" by Arkisi, which is rated an impressive 9.4.

Nika is ranked #65 at the time of writing, based on 3,158 ratings, with 137,740 views, and she is followed by 3,780 members. She is popular on other sites in the Network too, having appeared many times on SexArt (frequently with Milena D), and also on Viv Thomas, The Life Erotic, Errotica Archives and Eternal Desire. She has a very cute solo masturbation movie on MetArt X.

With an angelic look that somehow lends itself to the most sensual and alluring expressions, luscious pink lips and those startling blue eyes, it’s Nika’s pretty face that grabs the attention first, but her body is no less sensational. She looks taller than her 5’5” with such long, willowy legs, a perfectly round, firm ass, beautiful breasts, and a sexy butterfly-lipped pussy. She’s a natural model, clearly having a blast in front of the camera – and unlike many of our 50+ Club stars from the archives she is still actively modeling, so we can look forward to seeing much more of this blonde bombshell in the future.

Thanks to our resident statistician and historian, Frank, for his assistance.

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Faking a headache: is there a gender gap when it comes to sexual desire?

About the author: Allison Leigh is a pornographer, producer, polyamorist, and professional kinkster. When sexuality is business, business is fun! 

The oversexed fraternity brother, the pushy husband, the housewife who feigns a headache – familiar stereotypes, derived from an assumption that men have a higher sex drive than women. But is that truly the case?

The idea that most women have a lower sex drive than men is socially ingrained. It features in our cultural tropes, mirroring how it features in our daily lives – a culture where women deny their sexual desires, and many men feel that aggressive pursuit of sex is the only way to obtain it. Women’s lack of desire for sex, especially as they get older, is treated as an innate fact that men must overcome.

At a superficial glance, statistics appear to back this up – by a small margin, men do report higher sexual desire, activity, and more permissive attitudes toward sex. However, a ten-year meta study conducted by University of Wisconsin, Madison found that these results are closely tied to social factors, including age, race, and religion, indicating that sociocultural attitudes toward sex are what leads to the gender gap when it comes to sexual desire.

Psychologists Janet Hyde and Jennifer L. Petersen analyzed more than 800 sexuality studies over a period of 15 years. Their abstract states that they found “that men reported slightly more sexual experience and more permissive attitudes than women for most of the variables. However... most gender differences in sexual attitudes and behaviors were small. Exceptions were masturbation incidence, pornography use, casual sex, and attitudes toward casual sex... nations and ethnic groups with greater gender equity had smaller gender differences for some reported sexual behaviors than nations and ethnic groups with less gender equity.” Furthermore, they found that while a woman’s sex drive may decrease over time, this correlated more strongly with monogamy than with age.

With these facts in mind, it is time to discard the notion that women have an inherently lower sex drive than men – and instead turn a critical eye toward a culture that encourages disparity between genders, sexual violence, and judgmental behaviors such as ‘slut shaming’ for women who are openly sexual.

Women are challenging gender inequity in many arenas, with recent movements such as the SlutWalk, #MeToo and Time’s Up just the most visible and vocal examples of a drive to turn the spotlight on outdated and harmful stereotypes and behaviors.

Women reclaim the right to explore and express their sexual desires freely, without fear of recrimination; and what could be hotter than a woman who knows what she wants and isn’t afraid to claim it as her right?

Here at the MetArt Network, we love to see women taking charge, expressing themselves sexually in whatever way comes naturally. Perhaps if society allowed all women to feel that it was safe to be their true sexual selves, no one would feel the need to fake a headache again. 

This post first appeared on MyErotica.com

 

REFERENCES:

1. Petersen, J. L., & Hyde, J. S. (2010) A meta-analytic review of research on gender differences in sexuality, 1993–2007. Psychological Bulletin, 136 (1), 21-38. http://dx.doi.org/10.1037/a0017504

2. Bergner, D. (2013) “Unexcited? There May Be a Pill for That.” The New York Times, 22 May [Online].  http://www.nytimes.com/2013/05/26/magazine/unexcited-there-may-be-a-pill-for-that.html

3. Gross, J.  (2014) “5 Studies That Offer Fascinating Conclusions about Human Sexuality.” TED Blog, 30 Oct. [Online]. blog.ted.com/6-studies-that-offer-fascinating-conclusions-about-human-sexuality/.

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The MetArt 50+ Club: Mila I

Charming, quirky and effortlessly sexy, Ukrainian blonde Mila I is a delightful member of our MetArt 50+ Club, girls so popular they have been featured at least 50 times during their modeling career.  The tall, slender sweetheart is on many members’ all-time favorites list, and it’s easy to see why.

MILA I: ray of sunshine (78 appearances)

Blue-eyed beauty Mila made her debut at the age of 18 on October 7, 2009 in "Atenian" by Goncharov. She has appeared in ten movies and 68 photosets to date; two of each are girl-girl, and there is one three-girl photoset, “Mila With Us,” which teams her with Lily B and Sofi A. Her most recent appearance was on December 19, 2017, in “Tarinez” by Arkisi.

Mila has worked with seven different artists: Goncharov 21, Rylsky 21, Leonardo 10, Tony Murano 9, Arkisi 9, Fenix 7 and Luca Helios 1. Many of her appearances are rated over a 9, with several achieving an impressive 9.4 score – “Meet Me,” “Milos” and “Provalo,” all by Tony Murano, as well as her debut.

The laid-back cutie has a personal rating of 9 based on 10,867 votes at the time of writing, with 846,482 views and 9,550 members following her. She has appeared on several other sites in the MetArt Network: Erotic Beauty, Errotica Archives, Rylsky Art, Eternal Desire, and Domai and Goddess Nudes (as Kissa).

Mila’s appeal can be attributed not just to her athletic good looks – long legs, incredible breasts, butterfly-winged pussy, peachy ass, and pretty face – but also to the vibrant personality that radiates out from her pictures. From the cute sun tattoo around her navel to the many candid shots of her playing the fool, everything about this irresistible girl suggests she is a whole lot of fun to be around. No wonder the many adoring epithets bestowed upon her by members include not just “goddess” but “wife.”

Thanks to our resident statistician and historian, Frank, for his assistance.

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Is Porn Cheating?

About the author: Allison Leigh is a pornographer, producer, polyamorist, and professional kinkster. When sexuality is business, business is fun! 

When it comes to infidelity, where does fantasy cross the line?

Sexuality, while an integral part of the human experience, is something that continues to polarize pundits and plain folks alike. With adult entertainment at the forefront of politics across the US and UK right now, opinions are not in short supply. Something that continues to perplex us is where pornography sits in the scope of our marriages and relationships. Is viewing porn cheating, or is the link between erotic materials and romance more complex than that?

A new study released in February of this year sought to answer that question by comparing opinions on pornography with other cultural attitudes in the United States and Spain. In examining the data gathered from University of Florida and the University of Alicante, researchers found that an overwhelming number of participants (73 percent in USA and 77 percent in Spain) believe that viewing erotic materials is not cheating.

In the sample that did find porn use to be infidelity, researchers found strong correlations to their lifestyles, including religiosity, relationship status, and overall attitudes on jealousy and infidelity. A participant from the United States was more likely to view porn as cheating, as was someone who did not use erotic materials themselves, or was single (and therefore perhaps more likely to be idealistically rigid about their attitudes toward relationships). Having low self-esteem was also a factor tied to attitudes on porn and infidelity, but only in participants from the US. Interestingly, there weren’t any gender differences – women were not more likely than men to view porn as cheating.

Church attendance was the strongest predictor of a participant’s attitude toward erotic materials and infidelity. In respondents from the US, being religious predicted the view that porn is cheating, whereas Spanish respondents showed no such effect. About 70 percent of Spaniards identify as Catholics, but only around 9 percent of citizens attend church at least monthly. In contrast, as many as 42 percent of Americans attend church weekly. This suggests that it is attendance of church services, rather than self-identification as religious, that has an impact on one’s views on pornography.

Also worth noting is that Europeans, including Spanish Catholics, tend to be less punitive about sex in general, and also less dogmatic and energized about their religion, compared to many US evangelical churchgoers. These differences may also account for the differentiation between the two countries regarding whether or not low self-esteem played a factor in participants’ opinions on infidelity – it is hardly a stretch to think that those with a pronounced desire to belong to a group may feel more pressure to conform to church ideologies.

So is the answer to avoiding marital strife a detailed survey of your partner’s demographics? Are our cultural attitudes toward porn immutable? Hardly! Studies have shown that porn use adds more positive things to your relationship than negative, including improved sexual communication – if things are properly discussed. Couples have reported that they perceived porn as being linked to more sexual experimentation and sexual comfort in their relationships. Viewing pornography is also tied to higher levels of arousability, which can keep a sexual relationship alive.

As with all things in a partnership, communication is key – talk to your partner about their attitudes to porn and infidelity. While this is a conversation that many avoid due to fear of ensuing conflict, discussing these things early on can allow couples to navigate potential problems before they occur. Odds are that your partner will be amenable to your viewing habits, and honesty is far preferable to introducing secrecy and deception into your relationship, which is more likely to hurt your partner. Instead of undermining trust, use the conversation as an opportunity to promote understanding and develop your sexuality together. Strong relationships are built upon strong communication – something no amount of porn can damage or replace. We hope MetArt will play a role in that communication.

This post first appeared on MyErotica.com

 

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“Why Secrets Can Ruin Relationships.” Psychology Today. Accessed March 26, 2018. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/love-and-sex-in-the-digital-age/201609/why-secrets-can-ruin-relationships

Stephanie Both, Mark Spiering, Walter Everaerd, and Ellen Laan. “Sexual Behavior and Responsiveness to Sexual Stimuli following Laboratory‐induced Sexual Arousal.” The Journal of Sex Research 41, no. 3 (08 2004): 242–58. doi:10.1080/00224490409552232.

Taylor Kohut, William A. Fisher, and Lorne Campbell. “Perceived Effects of Pornography on the Couple Relationship: Initial Findings of Open-Ended, Participant-Informed, “Bottom-Up” Research.” Archives of Sexual Behavior 46, no. 2 (07, 2016): 585–602. doi:10.1007/s10508–016–0783–6.

Charles Negy, Diego Plaza, Abilio Reig-Ferrer, and Maria Dolores Fernandez-Pascual. “Is Viewing Sexually Explicit Material Cheating on Your Partner? A Comparison Between the United States and Spain.” Archives of Sexual Behavior 47, no. 3 (02, 2018): 737–45. doi:10.1007/s10508–017–1125-z.

 

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